My boyfriend doesn't , he says he practices tao but i'm not comfortable! clues?

i just gotr together with my boyfriend and when we have he first sometimes has difficulty getting it up. Sometimes, most of the times, we have great up to the point that I have up to 2 s and then he keeps going and going endlessly until my feels really sore and kinda like on fire and i have to stop him from going on. He says he practices Tao and that men don't need to but I instead feel no connection because I've never felt he reaches a climax or an even without . Also, I never know when to stop him, I always feel he never climaxed and it feels weird for me to have and being so out of synch. note: he's an alcoholic, too, any connection? could he be lying about his taoism and just cannot ?